Tonight my oldest son became a man. When I got home I told him to put his shoes on that we had to go pick up some tickets for a senior activity being held at his school. He said he hadn’t received any notice about having to go pick up raffle tickets which didn’t surprise me. Once we got home I asked him if he knew he was helping with he senior garage sale this weekend and he looked at me with awe. Again he stated he had heard nothing about the activity. I looked him straight in the eye and said, “Well now you are officially a man. You never know what’s going on until someone looks at you and says its time to go so as not to be late.” I didn’t add that once you get to my age you learn to stop asking where you are going and just let it be a surprise.